About – Mistress Anais

My story

I am strong, exquisitely feminine and sophisticated. I am confident in who I am and my sexuality, which I like to express in many ways. I believe in feminine power and will use it to my and your advantage and pleasure. I am unpredictable. If you want to serve me, you will not do it only because of my looks or sexuality. You will become obsessed with me, with my mind and ways of thinking, with my charisma and inner strength. My subs are to serve me because of who I am. There are many different sides of me, many layers and facets, and this variety and unpredictability is what will attract you to me and make your life exciting...if you play along nicely.

I believe that to truly understand the world of BDSM and the minds of her submissives, a genuine Domme has to find genuine pleasure in what she does and, having experienced pain, fear or humiliation herself, to understand what such experiences can give to a person. I have “lived” more than one life, always wanting to learn and experience new things, always interested in human nature and motives.

Despite some very tragic and painful events , I have always pushed forward and found a positive aspect in them. These experiences have enriched my life and given me the resilience I have today..

These experiences made me a truly strong person who exudes charisma and stamina in both my virtual and live sessions. The more you submit to me, the deeper and stronger our connection will become. As your addiction to me grows, the more meaning you will find in life.

I am a sapiosexual therefore my subs need to be intelligent

There are many facets to my passion:

First and foremost, I am interested in psychological domination and control. My main interest is to get deep into your brain, to have you totally submit to me and to have you hand over the keys to the darkest nooks and crannies of your mind ...

I like the sense of power that using you gives me. It's highly erotic to me. My main kinks are my power over you, female superiority, knowing things about you no one else knows, control over your mood, your fulfilment and, ultimately, your life.

Secondly, I want my subs simultaneously to be my friends - hence the intelligence requirement. I want to get to know you, to understand the person you are. I want to know I enrich your life as well as my own, and help you develop your existing submissive tendencies and find fulfilment. Chemistry is essential, but so is developing a bond. I will take the trouble to get to know my selected submissives well, but I won't allow any wasting of my time. If you wish to become one of my chosen few, you will firstly need to offer something which fascinates me, as well as something which confirms your sincerity and willingness to earn and retain every bit of my attention and your readiness to suffer and make sacrifices to satisfy my needs.

A GOOD MISTRESS ALWAYS GROWS, AND THERE IS NO BETTER WAY TO DO SO THAN BY EXPERIENCING, ANALYZING, REFLECTING AND DISCUSS

My belief is that a submissive man should submit to a woman who is not only dominant, sexy or beautiful but should find her valuable and interesting as a human being.

I live according to the philosophy of carpe diem, that is, I like to find pleasure in every single day by doing something new and enriching, and I will of course be looking for subs who display a similar attitude. I am committed to my personal growth and truly enjoy learning new things. I have two degrees already but I never stop learning. In fact my “ real”, most meaningful learning in life started after my graduations. I also teach. I take online courses and I design some courses and projects. A lot of my self discovery and further learning happens through teaching others.

I travel. In normal times, I travel a lot. I have lived in 6 countries. Thus, I have experienced many different cultures and lifestyles. I also love fine dining, art and fashion.

I am highly creative and enjoy painting, mainly with acrylic, in various styles. I do boxing and Muay Thai as I love the energy of these sports, and the challenge and risk they entail - and of course I gain the benefit of keeping my body in great condition.

Although I am very social by nature, you will still need to work hard.to merit my attention

If you satisfy my requirements via initial online contact, where could you meet me in person? Of course, that will depend on the resumption of safe international travel. Presently, I live primarily on a Polynesiann island. Typically, II am in New Zealand a few times a year, and travel via Los Angeles to Europe for the northern summer. In Europe, I would usually visit Germany, Poland, Italy, Spain, and other locations which vary according to my travel plans and work commitments.

If you will be lucky enough to meet me, I will take you on a journey of discovery, further than you've ever been before.